What Is Your Shade of Grey?

Your room has the ability to define your inner world and evoke your inner desires. The ones that are your secrets and only get revealed when you want them and to who you want to expose that part of yourself to. When you let someone into your space, you invite them into your world. Each element says something about you that can’t be expressed in words. The color gray is a neutral palette that gives you the opportunity to explore those mysterious parts of yourself.

Grey is sexy, grey is mysterious, and it is a color that skin tones look fabulous against. Grey is bold and willing to take a risk. When you surround yourself with gray, shadows and light begin to play and evoke an environment that is not only comfortable but enticing.

Begin with creating a sensual environment. Light an aromatherapy candle, start firing up your passion using the scent of Vanilla, Cinnamon or Tuber-rose. These are wonderful aphrodisiacs. Soft sensual high thread count sheets in white or grey, or even try sheets made from Bamboo texture - they will delight your skin as you wrap yourself in them.

Next let your imagination run wild with texture. A Faux Fur throw and big cushions.  An antique Tibetan rug or natural white shag for floors that is fun and to make the room feel warmer and soft. Add a smoked antique mirror for reflection and some erotic images strategically placed. Perhaps think about having a photographer take artistic photographs of you and your partner, if you want to really take an exciting risk and explore your sensual side.

An easy-to-operate music system is a must! Set up with a wide range of your favorite ambient songs to help turn up the heat. Every detail you chose to place in your Sexy Love Cave must resonate with your sensual soul. Curves and cushions, the deep exotic color grey and your furnishings that have some type of creative edge will help you define an exciting space. Try an upholstered headboard, a chaise that can be your Love chair, and two well-proportioned mirrored night stands with beautiful lamps on them with dimmers.

Imagine on the nightstand a beautiful silver tray with a bottle of red wine or scotch and decadent chocolates accompanying it. These are the details that ignite the senses and bring your inner spirit alive.

Set the stage and be unpredictable about your choices. Create a sensual ambiance and it will attract the right play partner to enjoy it with, even if that partner is you. Take a risk - that what life is all about!

Blessings,

Elyse